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Klasien 09:27 pm UTC 06/23/07 |
| In reply to: | re: I Use My Post Just Like A Bandage, I Use My Post Just Like A Wound - pidunk 10:45 am UTC 06/23/07 |
| I may only be 29, but I have seen my share of horrors. I was merely trying to imply that I have 'the right' to ask those questions, not that I have seen all you have seen. K. > > > > > > And yes, I have been in plenty of situations where I had > > > > the same feeling, so I do feel I know what I am > > > > saying/asking here! > > > > > > Klasien, you knock me over sideways sometimes with the > > > things you think you have in common with me. Are we > > > related? > > > > > > > no, I just wanted to prevent this to become a 'where the > > hell do you come from' discussion. You don't have to be > > related to accept you can both have a hard life! > > > > Of course, Klasien, it had occured to me that you meant that but the way that it was presented I wasn't sure....you seemed to have said that you felt like others had predisposed themselves to disliking you, and my own sense of subjectivity couldn't at the time look past my own experiences. So, I asked the most subjective question. > > I have no reason to doubt that like you say you have had > challenges in your life. I'm at a stage right now where I > find it somewhat difficult to fathom that someone could > know what I've been going through, because it is sometimes > just that too hard for me to take sometimes. Some parts of > my life are parts I can't get used to no matter how many > times I go through it. Others I manage to take in my > stride. Everything in between, too. > > If I could use age as a reference point, and I think you > are 29? When I was your age I had no idea that any of this > stuff that I know now, was happening to me, or that I > should have been aware of. At the age of 29, I had a > completely different life than the one I have now. If I > judge age by how long the continuum stream took a > particular turn, I would now be nineteen years old. > > So, my adjustments are sometimes awkward, and I know you > have had hard times. The place where you are at with a > child and a (second?) marriage, moving from one country to > another, are factors of stress and challenges, and these > are just the things you have let me see. I appreciate that > you are making good progress in your life, and happy for > your new marriage. > > | |
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