> > ...if only for one night...
> >
> > BTW, we're all alive except my mom - she'll have been gone
> > 10 years this summer. We didn't do well without her...
>
> A few weeks after my mother died 4 years ago, I had a
> dream where she was having a meal with her entire family.
> The dream was set the day before she died, and for some
> reason I knew (but couldn't of course tell her) that it
> was her last day.
>
> By far the most disturbing dream I've ever had. Still
> gets to me now.
>
> Dave
The first time I went back to the UK last year I saw my Mum and knew she wasn't well and feared the worse. I put on a brave face for her, because whatever pain she was feeling and she was in a lot of pain and whatever nightmare thoughts she was having, she doesn't need me being all morbid infront of her. Whe I said my goodbye's on that trip I knida knew it would be the last time I would see her. I week after getting back home to New Zealand she'd passed away. It was almost as if she'd hanged on until she saw me (my other 3 siblings lived very close to her) then gave up.
I've never had any weird dreams about her, probably because my Mum was in so much pain for such a long time I was happy that she wasn't in anymore suffering.
But yeah, I'd love to have her back just for one day, because she never got to meet my youngest son, her last grandchild :o(
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